04.07.09

A Night In

Posted in Home Life at 4:12 pm by calluna

I’m at home and it’s before 5. That never happens.

The house is clean (enough) and I have no class tomorrow, so no housework and no deep reading in composition studies tonight.

Tball practice was cancelled because it’s freezing outside, literally.

There’s always laundry that needs to be done but I can throw it in and forget about it.

I just might have a nice, relaxing evening at home. I might read the last four months of magazines that have been piling up. Or read some in the new book I bought week before last. Or finish knitting the scarf I started after Christmas. Or buy a movie on the satellite. Of work the crossword puzzle and cryptoquote in the newspaper. …

I better stop thinking of things to do before my night gets too busy.

03.25.09

To All the Cars I’ve Loved Before

Posted in Home Life, Memory Lane at 12:53 pm by calluna

The A/C in my husband’s car started having problems back in the fall. We didn’t worry much about it since it was getting cooler weather and we wouldn’t need the A/C again for several months. It’s already started to get warm here so we had it checked out a few weeks ago. They estimated $2,400 to replace the evaporator. What?!? It’s not quite 4 years old and has 60,000 miles, which to me seems a little young for such a big problem, considering our old car is nearly 12 years old with 175,000 miles on it and it’s A/C didn’t go out until last year. So we’ve started comparing what it would cost to get a different car versus paying for the repairs. Do we get the same kind of car or a different car? Do we get a car, or do we get a van or wagon Do we get a new car or a new car to us, aka used? Do we lease? Will someone give us enough for our broken car to pay off the loan?

This whole thing got me to thinking about all the cars I’ve had before (I say that like I’ve had a lot. Maybe I have. I dunno.) So a brief car-trip down car memory lane:

My first car I technically still have. I drove it last week, as a matter of fact. It’s a 1997 Mitsubishi Galant. Green. That cool teal green that was popular in the mid- to late- 90s  but that is not at all popular now. It’s the aforementioned 175,000-er. I got it the night before my 17th birthday as a surprise. It stayed with me through that last year of high school, went with me to college, and was one of the things my husband liked about our relationship — he preferred my car over his truck; I liked his truck. It endured 4 winters in Indiana and got it’s driver-side mirror knocked off once. It had issues with belts and A/C , and got a rebuilt transmission 3 years ago, but overall it’s been a good, dependable car. We currently use it as our “spare.”

My second car was actually hubby’s truck. A 1995 Toyota T-100 (the predecessor to the Tacoma). It was maroon and had a king cab. Very nice. It was one of the things I liked about him. I had wanted a truck but my dad wanted me to have something more appropriate for hauling stuff and hauling friends — a 4-door with a trunk and good gas mileage. The truck was great, but it met its fate one early, icy, Indiana morning when it skid on an icy hill and hit a telephone pole. Hubby was behind the wheel but wasn’t hurt, at least not from the impact (the air bag burned his arm). He was moving very slowly down a hill, aware of black ice, and there was just nothing he could do. The truck was totaled. We took the insurance money and paid off the Galant.

Fortunately by this time, we had already acquired my third car — our first car together. Sweet, isn’t it? A 2001 Mitsubishi Montero Sport. Our first SUV. We actually leased it because to buy it was too expensive. It was great for winter weather driving and looked nice too. The gas mileage was horrible, so when the lease was up we turned it back in. We were already back in the south by then and didn’t need the 4-wheel drive down here.

A few months before the lease was up on the Montero, we bought hubby’s Volkswagon Passat. Brand New. 2005. Silver, with leather seats. Very nice. He loves it. Drives it every day, even without a working A/C.

Finally, my Pilot. I made my first used car purchase last year — a 2005 Honda Pilot — and I love it. It had low mileage and we got the payments that I wanted. My service rep is a neighbor, so that works out well.

I imagine future car purchases including a truck — we’ve wanted one ever since we lost the last one, but it’s just not been practical (yet). I’d like to always have two different styles of vehicles — like one car and one SUV/van. That way there’s one vehicle with mega room and one that’s just right Think Goldilocks and the three bears: “This one’s too big. This one’s too small. But this one is just right.”

Of course, there will come a day when it won’t just be the two of us needing vehicles. I don’t even want to think about that. Our boys may end up driving a 1997 Mitsubishi Galant who’s color went out of style 2 decades ago.

10.13.08

Alone Time

Posted in Home Life at 8:49 am by calluna

The cryptoquote in today’s paper was rather fitting for me today.

“Your most precious moments are the times when you can be alone.” (John Miller)

Today is Columbus Day, and I am fortunate enough to have the day off, yet my kids are still in school so I can truly enjoy some alone time … which is how I had time to work the cryptoquote.

09.17.08

Blooming at the Moon

Posted in Home Life tagged , at 11:14 am by calluna

My moonflower plant that for five months I’ve been caring for and nurturing in high hopes of being rewarded with beautiful moon-blooms has finally bloomed, and the bloom is just beautiful! Plus, there are about a half a dozen buds that will hopefully open soon. How wonderful to see something grow from a seed to a plant and then create such a magnificent display of beauty.

09.12.08

Just What I Needed

Posted in Home Life, My Kids, Religious at 3:33 pm by calluna

I’ve had parenting issues this week, and my “Power of a Praying Parent” calendar had some good things to say to me.

On Tuesday:

“The world and the Devil are making every effort to control your child’s mind. The good news is that you have the authority to resist those efforts. If your child is young, you have the authority over what he puts into his mind. But most important of all, you have the power of prayer. So, even if your child is beyond your daily influence, you can pray for his mind to be sound and protected.”

On Wednesday, a piece of Scripture, which just happens to be my dad’s favorite verse:

“You will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in You.”– Isaiah 26:3

And then on Thursday, a prayer:

“I pray that his/her mind would be clear, alert, bright, intelligent, stable, peaceful, and cluttered.”

I not only need to pray these things for my kids but for myself!

08.22.08

We Have a Pumpkin!

Posted in Home Life, My Kids tagged , at 12:10 pm by calluna

Back in the spring I bought two pumpkin seed kits with 3 pumpkin seeds each, a little disk of dirt and a cup to grow them in. The boys and I planted a cup of pumpkin seeds for each of them, and within a week we had 6-inch tall sprouts!

We planted them in my dad’s backyard, and the boys have really enjoyed checking on their progress at “Papaw’s and Nana’s” house. They also help water them whenever they are over there. The plants are now approximately 15-20 feet long!

While they have grown well and have had many blooms, we’ve all been a little concerned about whether or not they would produce any pumpkins. I even sought advice from Mr. Tate at church who owns the local Tate Farms pumpkin patch. While Mr. Tate felt pretty confident we’d get some pumpkins, my dad had already said he was prepared to go buy several large, orange pumpkins to stick around the plants if they didn’t produce any fruit.

Well, as you can see, it doesn’t look like we’ll have to do that. The pumpkin in the picture is on Finn’s plant and is about the size of a volleyball. Caden’s plant doesn’t have any pumpkins yet but it has quite a few blooms and there’s still two months left of the growing season, so we’re hopeful.

Now I need to ask Mr. Tate how to keep our pumpkin alive and growing until fall, and how to help it turn orange!

07.13.08

Star Wars Birthday

Posted in Home Life, My Kids, Space tagged at 10:36 pm by calluna

07.11.08

Making My Brown Thumb Turn Green

Posted in Home Life tagged , , at 11:33 am by calluna

A few years ago when living in Indiana my friend Marla took me to meet a friend of hers, and this friend was very good at gardening. Me, I’ve always been a brown thumb. I forget to water, then I over water, I set a plant out for a little sun and it ends up fried … you get the picture. So when this friend of Marla’s gave us a little pod of moonflower seeds, I was hopeful … but didn’t really expect to end up with the green leafy plants this woman had.

As I expected, I planted my moonflower seeds and was not successful at producing a plant much less any moonflowers. I hadn’t given it much thought again until earlier this year when selecting some plants to decorate our front porch area. I love vining plants and as a kid (with mom’s help) grew morning glories each year. I remember when I was about 8 years old walking out the front door to catch the bus and all the pretty purple morning glories were open. Moonflowers and morning glories are related, by the way, which is why when I decided to return to my childhood and grow morning glories to climb up the posts of my front porch, I decided to try moonflowers as well. That, and I always felt a little guilty about not taking care of the first set the way I should have.

My moonflower plant is doing well at producing bright green, heart-shaped leaves. This photo is about two weeks old, so it’s actually a bit taller now. Still no blooms but the summer’s not over yet.

I feel like my failure at growing moonflowers the first time has been redeemed. I’ve also learned that the ability to garden relates to priorities which is a reflection of maturity. The failure of the moonflowers and the many other plants over the years was because I did not place priority on it, which led to neglect.

I can’t say for sure what made the difference between today and several years ago. I’m a mom now so perhaps my nurturing instinct has kicked in. Also, I own my home now and take greater pride in its look and appeal. Whatever the reason, the four-foot tall (and growing!) moonflower plant is proof that time has changed me, and apparently my brown thumb too.

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